The Fastest Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Every breakup needs time to resolve itself, no matter how long or short. While there's no magical solution that will fix your breakup overnight, there are definite ways of speeding up the process of getting back together with your ex-boyfriend. If you're looking to reverse your breakup as quickly as possible, you'll need to know and make use of the methods and techniques below.

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Accept That Things Are Over

When someone first breaks up with you, the only thing on your mind is getting them back. Very often this goal will overrule logic and reason, causing you to do foolish and rash things in the hours, days, and even weeks after your boyfriend ends the relationship. The more you want him back, the harder you fight - which is ironic because the harder you fight, the more likely you are to push away the person you love. Getting your ex back quickly requires you to abandon rash thinking, and clear your head before you do anything else. You must accept that your relationship is over before you can work toward fixing things between you and your ex-boyfriend.

The sooner you can accomplish letting go, the better off you'll be. The faster you can remove yourself from any feelings of hopelessness and despair, the quicker you can get started on the road to reconciliation. You want to get over your boyfriend early. Moreover, you want to let him know that you're over him. You can't get your ex back while you're still fighting to keep him. You need to walk away first, and worry about fixing things later on.

Obviously, this is easier said than done. But by accepting your boyfriend's decision to end things, you're also agreeing with him on the stance he's taken. In a way, you're on his side. You've joined his team. He has nothing to fight with you on, and he'll even feel a measure of kinship by you aligning yourself with his own ideas. This kind of teamwork can actually help get you back together with your ex-boyfriend faster than if he fought him on his decision to break up with you. More importantly, he's going to respect you for not begging and pleading to keep going with a broken relationship. By recognizing the same flaws he does, you can actually put yourself into a position (later on) where the two of you can identify what's wrong with your romance and fix it together.

You Cannot Be Friends With Your Ex Boyfriend. Period.

When you and your ex-boyfriend part ways, he may utter those three horrendous words that no girl wants to hear: "let's be friends". If and when this happens, you'll need to know exactly what to do. Making the wrong move here can actually destroy any chance of you and your boyfriend ever dating again. You need to be extremely careful with how you answer.

Friends with Ex Boyfriend

The very idea of being friends with an ex-boyfriend is a complete fallacy. There's no possible way of making it work for any length of time. On top of this, if you're trying to get your ex-boyfriend back, being friends with him will hinder that goal more than help it. Many women don't understand this. They believe by staying close with an ex boyfriend, they can keep in touch and somehow work their way back into being a girlfriend again. But it doesn't work that way. In fact, once you've been your ex boyfriend's "friend" for a while, it becomes almost impossible for him to consider you as anything else.

An ex-boyfriend who breaks up with you and wants to remain friends is doing one of two things. Either he's trying to let you down easy, or he's keeping you around while he goes on to date other people and see what else is out there. Neither one of those prospects is very appealing. For that reason you need to refuse any offer to be friends with your ex-boyfriend after the breakup. Unless you do, you're giving him all the benefits of a caring relationship without any of the burden of committing to you.

And the worst part about being friends with your ex is that it will always prolong the breakup. When there's no incentive for him to get back together with you, your ex-boyfriend will keep the situation "as is" for as long as he can.

Any time your ex offers to stay friends after dumping you, politely decline. Turning away from that offer is the single best thing you can do to boost the chances of the two of you getting back together again. As you refuse his offer and walk away, you ex will be pretty worried that you're ready to move on without him. You've taken away his safety net, and left him out in the cold. He expects you to want him back. He doesn't expect you to break all contact by refusing even his casual offer to remain in touch. This will cause your ex to make a choice between having you or having the breakup... because you're certainly not going to give him both.

For tons more valuable information on what to do when your ex boyfriend just wants to be friends, click here.

Don't Return Your Ex's Phone Calls or Text Messages

Many times after a guy breaks up with you, he'll still call or stay in touch. As if this isn't confusing enough, he'll expect some type of response from you - either through e-mail, text messages, or any other form of communication. It's good news that he still wants to talk to you, because it means he's not completely finished with the relationship just yet. But at the same time, such contact can be counterproductive to getting your ex to miss and need you back.

Whenever your ex-boyfriend calls you, it's very easy to get overly excited. Your first instinct will be to grab the phone and talk about anything he wants to say. The better move however, is to let the phone ring and allow him to leave a message. Then go one step further, and delete his message without returning it. This will be a hard thing to do, but in the interests of getting back your ex-boyfriend it's going to go miles further than if you had picked up the phone and talked to him.

Sitting around by the phone is for chumps. If your boyfriend suspects that's what you're doing, he's going to see you as needy and desperate. He won't be able to have respect for you if you're returning his phone calls and text messages within seconds of getting them. You need to create the illusion that you're busy, even when you're not. In fact you should appear so busy that you don't even have time to return his messages.

Nothing will freak a guy out faster than an ex-girlfriend who won't call him back. This huge kick to his ego will get him instantly wondering what you could possibly be up to that is more important than him. Are you dating someone else? Have you completely moved on? These thoughts will fly through his head as his e-mails, phone calls, and text messages go unanswered. It's the age-old rule: once you stop chasing him, he'll start chasing you.

Playing phone games is never the solution when it comes to trying to put together a mature, stable relationship. But not answering your phone and not returning your messages is a completely different story. Very quickly your ex-boyfriend will actually feel rejected by you, and you will have seized back some of the control over your relationship. When he broke up with you he took all of the control, so getting back at least some of that power is an important part of winning your boyfriend back.

Go Out And Have A Great Time Without Him

The worst thing your boyfriend can see is that the breakup hasn't affected you at all. This is why going out and having the time of your life with friends and family is one of the fastest ways to get your ex back. It makes him immediately realize exactly what he's missing by letting you go.

Make Your Ex Want You

Guys like to feel responsible for keeping their girlfriends happy. On some level, your exboyfriend actually wants you to be miserable without him. He wants to know that he was needed, and that the things he did mattered to you in terms of being fulfilled. So when you show how thrilled you to be out, single, and having fun again? It's like twisting a knife in your ex-boyfriends chest.

Twisting the knife is a good thing. It's good for you, because even if he doesn't see you (or hear about your exploits), you're out there having fun and getting your mind off the breakup. It's also good in terms of getting back together again. Seeing you having such a great time without him there will have your boyfriend questioning whether he needs you more than you need him.

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